Celebrating our kids for our sake

When we celebrate our kids the son-rise way, it’s not to modify behavior. It’s to sincerely express gratitude. Despite the fact that our kids have difficulty with social skills, for example, we express gratitude that that glimpse at us, which is a big effort for them.
This helps is cultivate within ourselves a deep sense of gratitude for our child.
It’s not about them, it’s about us.